Finally, A Simple, Practical, Proven System For…
How To Deal With A Bully At Work
WARNING! Do Not Talk To Your Boss
or Approach Your Bully Until You Have
Read This Urgent Message!
Dear Bullying Target
If you have been looking for a way to stop the endless nightmare of being bullied at work, regain hope and get back to being able to sleep then this could be the most important page that you read all year!
You see, I too used to feel unsafe at work, agonize over what people were saying about me and reel in shock at the injustice of what was happening. I have even had my boss tell me to stop being difficult and “just get over it”.
But, not any more!
My name is Cas Smith and I am a former workplace bullying target who helps people deal with distressing bullying situations in their workplace. I, like you, looked for natural justice and expected that my boss, HR or even my peers would deal with the bully. Unfortunately, even with great performance reviews, I was the one told to stop making trouble or … maybe … lose my job!
But Being Told I Was A Trouble-Maker
Wasn’t Going To Stop ME!
I started reading up on the organisation’s policies and finding out my legal rights. I put into practice everything I had ever learnt on conflict management, negotiation and dealing with difficult people, read every self-help book I could spend my hard earned money on, and listened to every workplace bullying “expert” who offered advice … but NOTHING WORKED!
Then, I discovered the COLD HARD TRUTH about why I simply couldn’t make the bullying stop. And here it is …
Believe or not, you might feel you are the bully’s target but in reality you’re not! We will help you discover the real reason for you being bullied at work and it might not be what you think.
In fact, here’s my 6 top most “ineffective” methods of dealing with the situation.
Ineffective Solution #1 – Ignore The Bully And They Will Stop (NOT!)
If a bully is getting what they want (whatever that is…) their staying power will be longer than yours!!
Ineffective Solution #2 – Just Get On With It!
In reality, working harder and longer might mean you get your work done but it CERTAINLY WONT stop the bully!
It WILL put you under extreme pressure to (over) perform!!
Ineffective Solution #3 – Tell The Bully To Stop
Really? And they will listen, why?
A bully is … a bully. A request to stop can make you appear weak or vulnerable, more of a target to them. Ask at the wrong time – when the bully is agitated or with cronies – and your request may even be a red flag to a bull!
Ineffective Solution #4 – Tell Your Boss
So, you think they know what to do, or even want to know it’s happening? The downside of telling is that your boss may think it easier to manage you and label you the trouble maker than to step into the firing line themselves to confront the bully. Experts in their field they well may be; however, few bosses know now to manage difficult, complex, sensitive situations … like bullying.
Ineffective Solution #5 – Go to HR
Seems their agenda might not include looking after you, despite what their policy says! HR needs to put the organisation first leaving your interests to come a sad second. That could mean dragging out ineffective company policies — or removing you — and not taking any real action against the bully.
Ineffective Solution #6 – Tell your family and friends
Spreading the pain … all the time? Most of us have precious little time to spend with our family and friends. Spending most, or all, of it obsessing about bad situations work seems a waste. Worse, even though they have your best interests at heart, their ‘solutions’ are likely to be the ineffective ones I’ve already talked about!
How do I know doing these ‘solutions’ are not a good idea? I’ve tried them.
This Horrible Bullying Advice Nearly Cost Me My Job!
Back then (twelve years ago), I was doing well in a key planning role for a large, high profile project with lots of senior stakeholders. Seemingly overnight, my nightmare began and my situation went from great to awful! Suddenly, my name was mysteriously ‘missed’ off the invite list for all the important meetings and people didn’t meet my eye or say hello any more. A friend told me that they had heard rumours from “reliable sources” I was not performing well and that I might be “moved on”.
I scraped my memory – What have I done wrong? Why treat me like this!
I worked even harder and put in even longer hours only to find things getting even worse. It got the point where I could not remember when I’d last slept more than a few hours in row. I even started thinking about leaving my job before they fired me – things were not good.
Then, I cottoned on to the ‘who’ and ‘why’ of my troubles. You see, the ‘go live’ date was looming and all the senior stakeholders were jostling for control of the project. And, my big ‘aha’ moment, you ask? My boss thought I was the obstacle stopping him from owning the project! He went from championing me to lampooning me. I was his target!! While the road was still long and hard, working out how I got to be in the firing line meant I could choose how to deal with the bully and the ‘copy cats’ at work and negotiate the minefields.
I have actively followed 25 years of research in the European Union, America and Australia on the extreme effects of bullying on workers’ health and careers, and kept up to date on trends in dealing with bullying in the workplace. After 12 years working with people from all levels of organisations, from new starters to people with many years of service, my experience as a coach for workplace bullying targets is extensive and successful. I’ve provided information, affirmation, decision-making tools and coaching that has transformed people’s work situation.
Here’s what my clients say about me:
Mary was a Senior Manager in a State Government agency with a broad range of responsibilities including project and human resource management. Mary was bullied over an extended period by her line manager.
Mary’s Aha Moment! She DID NOT Cause The Bullying!“On reflection, meeting and discussing the issue with Cas on a regular basis allowed me to explore the problem in a detached manner, determine my part in the situation and clarify the next steps towards resolution. I realised that although I wasn’t the cause of the problem my inaction was a contributing factor to its continuing and, with Cas’ help, my decision was to remove myself from the situation and seek an alternate role. What I learnt from Cas’ mentoring then continues to assist in my work relationships today.”
Gordon won a promotional position after telling his bosses about the severe bullying he suffered. Now he has a senior management role in a health organisation.
A Simple, Step-By-Step Plan For Dealing With Your Workplace Bully
I’ve produced a 90 minute online video tutorial with the exact information you need to address the emotionally draining effect of workplace bullying. When you’re ready to take drastic action, what you need is a resource that doesn’t refer you to the same old basic tips and point you to tired and ineffective company policies. What’s the point in re-applying bad advice that everyone (including your HR department) has tried and already had fail?
What you need is real tips and sound advice so you can figure out how to:
- Ease the stress of waiting for the bully to strike again by knowing the outcomes you are looking for, understanding the actions you can take and when
- Enjoy a peace of mind that literally liberates you by knowing how to analyse what is happening and choose what you will do
- Relieve even the most embarrassing bullying situation using facts and humour to create a more ‘real’ impression of your competence
- Easily avoid the potentially damaging effects of telling the wrong people or acting in ways that get you fired (not the bully!) How unfair is that?
- Heighten your feeling of empowerment with these 5 simple steps
- Discover the thrill of making the absolute best of a rotten situation and experience the boost in your confidence and your heightened self-image
- Benefit from the liberating power of no longer being controlled by your bully, and the knowledge, tools and means to achieve it
- Treat your loved ones to the re-emergence of the person that they know and love by having access to information and support that create a worry free you
What’s It Cost To STOP Your Workplace Bully Now?
If you were to attend all the seminars I’ve attended, read all the books I’ve read and study all the courses I’ve paid for … you could easily invest over $10,000 just in the costs alone.
Depending on the value you place on your time, your investment to learn what I’ve learned could be in the tens of thousands of dollars.
That is why the powerful secrets, tips and techniques I have carefully laid out in my 90 minute video tutorial “Bullied No More – A Step-by-step Training System To Help Eliminate The Threat Of Being Bullied At Work” would be a huge bargain at a price of $297 or even $497 … just a fraction of the costs I’ve incurred.But I’m offering you a concrete next step for your fast track to dealing with workplace bullies essential for your success in changing your work situation for an unbelievable price of just $29.95. That’s under $1.00 a day for 30 days to learn the real reason for workplace bullying and be better placed at work!
Three additional Super Bonuses valued at $219 are yours
FREE, just for trying my strategies
But just to sweeten the pot, I’ve ALSO decided to include THREE every powerful FREE super bonuses that will give you a good jump-start towards dealing with bullying at work.
SUPER BONUS #1:
Handy transcript of the video tutorial “Bullied No More – A Step-by-step Training System
To Help Eliminate The Threat Of Being Bullied At Work”
Did you know that the secret to successfully dealing with a bully is NOT the ability to react quickly in stressful situations? — It’s the ability to set your goals and choose actions that are proven to be successful. This handy transcript is your ready reference so you can follow our proven-to-work strategies…
Transcribed from the EXPERT video presentation, this material will help you absorb the new approach and build your confidence, making it easier to hold to your own path in workplace bullying situations!
SUPER BONUS #2:
FREE 30 minute telephone consultation
Do you wonder whether what is happening to you at work is really workplace bullying? Here is your opportunity to talk with me, Cas Smith. In just 30 minutes, you will have my take on the situation in your workplace and know how my approach to dealing with bullies at work can help you.
SUPER BONUS #3:
The Situational Assessment, Visioning and Action Plan Worksheet
This extremely valuable new bonus is a step-by-step guide to the FIVE ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS you need to answer to liberate yourself from uncertainty … even if you have been in despair!
I show you each step that I use to clarify the situation, establish goals and set the scene for improvement … and tell you exactly how you can make choices, regain hope and get closer to your preferred workplace future every day!
You literally have NOTHING to lose when you try these strategies!
If you’re still not 100% sure that the five simple steps are exactly what you need to start feeling more empowered in the face of workplace bulling, let me put you completely at ease with my unconditional guarantee…
If you take this first step and view the video tutorial “Bullied No More – A Step-by-step Training System To Help Eliminate The Threat Of Being Bullied At Work” but can’t immediately put the strategies to use to change your work situation for the better, just let me know.
I will INSTANTLY send you an immediate refund… even if it’s a year from today (or even longer!). I’ll even let you keep the $128 worth of bonuses my thanks for giving my strategies a try…
It’s that simple.
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But remember …
… the longer you wait, the longer you will be constrained by worry and helplessness.
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